Things we African Descedents in the Diaspora SHOULD know.

Christian Black Codes of 1724

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MESSAGE TO THE BLACK MAN

Top of the day beautiful people of the Earth.I have been trying to avoid getting on serious topics since I am an amateur to this thing called Blogging,but when is enough a got damn nuff.Today I woke up on the right side of the bed,in a positive mindframe,with good intentions and then it hit me like a pile of rocks! Why are Black Men always complaining about how bad it is to be with a Black Woman,yet they get into Zebra relationships and go through the same thing,if not WORSE??? I would think that women come in chaos regardless of race but let Black Men tell it,we are the worst.I've heard things such as:Black women are lazy,they wear fake nails,hair and get section 8 and welfare,they get you locked up and they're money hungry,YET in the same breath the same Brothas start a Zebra relationship and get the EXACT SAME THING and calls it different. DO SHARE,HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT? The last time I checked-WOMEN WERE WOMEN and any woman can be a bad apple just as well as men come in bad apples as well.I am not racist by any means but I find it an issue when our own men speak so negatively towards us but will claim children that may belong to another Brotha,will be just fine with going to prison because a woman doesn't like that you aren't spending enough time with her,will be just fine with a woman using her skin color to control you with the "proper authorities" and will be just fine with a woman and her relatives calling you "NIGGER" when they get mad at you.I'm sure this goes on in other states,but this is a Direct Statement for Minnesotans because i've lived it and seen it 1st hand and it's sad.I can't speak for every Black Man who's dating interracially because this does not apply to all,but it does apply to many.I remember about a year ago my husband couldn't understand why I would get pissed about this particular thing until I showed him the videos on youtube and then he understood and he himself became pissed.To see a caucasion woman and a black man posting videos putting down the race of black women,calling us the most undesired woman on the planet,how we are jealous of them and most of all to see that the black man was contributing to this farce had us both infuriated.True,black women wear weaves-but so do other race women.True,black women wear fake nails-but so do other race women.True,black women get welfare and section 8-but so do other race women.True,black women can be bitches-but so do other race women.AND TRUST-WHORES COME IN ALL COLORS.There's a reason why I got on this subject: KIDS. How do Most (I didn't say ALL) Black Men find it okay to take care of their mixed children,but leave their black children hanging,what makes any child you create any different from the next one-they all belong to you don't they? I used to see posts on facebook where Black Men would say dumb shit like:I'm gonna have mixed babies only cause I don't want no dark nappy headed babies!!! What the hell,aren't you black? Half of these men are good fathers and aren't allowed to see their kids,and that's for WOMEN OF ALL RACES!!! My advice to you Brothas is this:THE SAME WAY A WOMAN USES THE SYSTEM AGAINST YOU,USE THAT MUTHASUCKA AGAINST HER FOR VISITATION RIGHTS,CUSTODY RIGHTS,CHILD SUPPORT.These are some of the things that irritate me to the core,it's not meant for everyone but for many that go through these things and find nothing wrong with it.Before you spit on your own kind,open your eyes and look what you go through with another kind.Tripolar1

My Son And The Mouse

Top of the day readers,this morning was quite funny.We came home last week after being away for 3 weeks and found that mice had went on a rampage in our house so I sat out glue traps for the mice.They hadn't been going on the traps probably because they were adult mice and they knew from their deceased relatives what would happen.Well it looks as if that pregnant mother that I saw last week had her little ones because I saw the little son of a mouse run into the room the traps are setup in last night and I just knew he was a goner.This morning I told little Derrick to go into the room and look to see if there were any mice on the glue traps and I knew there was because this is what his reaction was "MOM,STUART LITTLE IS STUCKKKK" Stuart Little huh? Although I am groggy and irritated due to lack of sleep and this cold,I started cracking up laughing because his facial expression was priceless and that's not where it ends.He then started explaining to me that the baby mouse was soooo cute and not to let the people come take it cause it was a little baby,it was so funny and cute at the same time.Then he became sad because I told him we can't live with mice or we will be sick and icky and his reply was "well can the mouse live with the people that pick him up" Where do these kids come up with this stuff? What I learned and fully understood about 4 year olds this morning is that they have the ability to have empathy at such a young age.Definitely made my morning but this mouse is getting out of here as soon as the people get here this morning.Tripolar1

My Son Got Me Again!

Top of the day readers,I must share how my morning started because I originally got up this morning and made a cup of coffee,excited to post an interesting blog about a dream I had but my exciting plan was altered because I couldn't get online.The problem started last evening when I caught my 3 year old son at my computer with numerous screens open.I saw many screens but didn't check to see if he'd changed anything so I quickly closed them,oh what a mistake I made.I spent about 2 hours on the phone this morning with Time Warner Cable and we found the internet connection but it just wouldn't connect to the computer although it was reading the computer connection.As everyone knows I have no patience so I was done with trying with the representative since we were doing the same steps and getting the same responses,so I decided to check my firewall and found that the screen that I should have checked last night is what Mr.Dimitrius changed.He changed the settings from "Allowing" internet access in and out to "Blocking" internet access in and out!!! I felt extremely dumb because once again I got outsmarted by my kids on this high end technology.I have put a pattern on my cell phone so the same son would stop going into the android market downloading kid games and he figured that out once so now I take the liberty to change it often,at least that's what I thought.I found him watching the movie "Alpha Dog" on netflix on the phone yesterday afternoon.Is this kid an alien from somewhere that I have given birth to because he sure is very saavy when it comes to technology.The moral of the story is: WATCH YOUR KIDS OR THEY WILL HAVE THE GOVERNMENT KNOCKING ON YOUR DOOR!!!! TRIPOLAR1

BLOGGING

I have much to learn about this Blogging adventure and i'm sure it will come in due time but in the meantime I have things to do and children to prevent from destroying the house.I can't wait until my new phone comes so i can set this blog site up on it and also I miss my twitter on my phone.Good day :-)

Setting Children Up For Failure

Hello everyone,my boys and I just woke up about 40 minutes ago,it was quite early but it's ok because we were given the opportunity to be alive.I want to discuss how "today's parents" set their children up for failure,whether they do it knowingly or unknowingly.When I was a child the adults had their priorities straight,true enough many were drug and alcohol addicted in many households,but there was always another relative that made sure the family stayed grounded and children were put 1st.Nowadays there are parents out here giving their children the automatic ticket to the wrong ways of life.We are supposed to teach our children the ways of the world as much as we can,not send them to school and put the teaching off on the teachers.Most of these children today(young ones and teens) are barely getting any home training so if they lack that in itself what is the point of sending them to school? Is it because parents want to say how they are happy they got a break? Most of the kids today aren't learning anything at school and it's not always because the school fails them,but because many of them are "today's children" with "today's parent's who don't care if they learn a thing,just as long as they are out of their faces.Very sad if you ask me.I don't agree with The No Child Left Behind Act because it enables children to just pass through the cracks missing out on many educational opportunities.When I was growing up,if you didn't pass the grade you were in-YOUR ASS WAS LEFT BEHIND!!! These parents today and children today are comfortable with only being able to understand 4 to 5 letter words.One thing my husband and I refuse to do is talk to our 3 and 4 year old boys as if they are babies because although they are babies-they are humans that have brains like sponges and they are learning constantly.If a child can repeat a full rap song,they better be able to repeat something worthy of using their tongues.Another problem that i've noticed is that parents are becoming more and more slum by the second these days.Our children are not our friends nor are they our little pretty toys to turn into fashion statements,they are a part of us.I can't understand at all why adults find it cute and funny to socialize with their children and the child's friends.What is the point in partying with your 15 year old? They will not respect you as a parent,adult or person of authority but they will treat you as their friend,not the nurturer,teacher and guidance that they should see you as.Women and Men who find no fault in calling their Daughters Bitches and Whores and their Sons Dumb and Worthless will surely have an appointment with the higher being because there is no way we were put on this planet to be dumbed down,especially by our own parents! It saddens me to see children go throught that,especially when the parents are with knowledge themselves.You would think some of these people said to themselves "I saw the path that my mom and dad went down with us so I will make sure my kids don't have to endure it" BUT NOOOOOO,history repeats itself.The cycle will only continue for many of the children and it's an irritation when you fault a child that is a product of their environment.They learn what they live and it will only grow to get worse unless these parents decide to turn their trifling meter off.Well that's my time,feel free to comment and share your thoughts.TRIPOLAR1